Written by,
Robert Johnson
What is love Bombing? It is a technique used by toxic individuals. Love bombing is an attempt to influence a person by demonstrations of attention and affection. It can be used in different ways and can be used for either a positive or negative purpose.
Because the toxic individuals will read and and use the information so that they may be seen as the victim I speak in the language of a survivor, it really is covert, yes.
Remember a “Covert narcissist” is never alone, survivors have been isolated and never claim to be victims.
The have
- Gold child
- Flying mothers
- Triangulation partners
- They sit all day and all night never testing looking for the next source of supply. They are like vampire all their work is done in the dark, at night.
1 Peter 5:8 KJV
Everyone to women in government,Wall Street, and other financial leaders use the art of “Love Bombing” as a source of manipulation. Many victims are left by the side of the road.
2 Timothy chapter 3 KJV
2 Timothy 3 King James Version (KJV)
3 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.
2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,
4 Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;
5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.
6 For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,
7 Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.
Love bombing feels good, until it doesn’t.
Love bombing is the practice of overwhelming someone with signs of adoration and attraction — think flattering comments, tokens of affection, or love notes on the mirror, kitchen table, or windshield, and you’re beginning to get the picture. It’s flowers delivered at work with hearts dotting the i’s in your name. It’s texts that increase in frequency as they increase in romantic fervor. It’s surprise appearances designed to manipulate you into spending more time with the bomber — and, not coincidentally, less time with others, or on your own.
When someone tells you just how special you are, it can be intoxicating, at first. However, when a person uses such comments to keep your focus trained on him or her, or to keep bringing you back in if you’ve started to back off, it could be a case of manipulation. Not everyone who whispers sweet nothings in your ear is a narcissist or predator, of course, but if you’re feeling that something just isn’t right about the person or your relationship, these constant reminders of “how good you are together” when you suspect that you really aren’t can be an effort to keep you tethered. It’s often the first line used by a potential abuser.
Why do narcissists love bomb?
Narcissists in particular are known for their skills at manipulation, as much as their penchant for self-love. They may use flattery and attention as tools to build themselves up as the perfect partner, the better to gain your trust, affection — and, ultimately, adoration. Narcissists often learn through experience that once partners see through their facades, the relationship may self-destruct.
Once they have convinced you of how good the two of you are together, a narcissist will try to shape your role in the relationship into a member of their “supporting cast.” For this and other reasons, narcissists typically struggle to maintain equal, mutually satisfying relationships.
Narcissists move quickly to avoid detection, so the more someone tries to flatter you into submission, the more diligently you need to explore their motives.
When we think of a love-bombing campaign, we need to remember that the end goal is to win. When the narcissist uses this strategy, he or she does so to capture their prey before the prey gets too wise to the game. It’s like when you’re trying to entice your dog to come to you at the dog park — you use your sweetest voice, pet names, and maybe even bring out the special treats. You want to win over your dog’s trust and get him close enough to you to snap the leash back on his collar. Narcissists are going to do whatever it takes to get close enough to a romantic interest as quickly as they can before their target bolts.
Individuals who are especially high in the trait of narcissism, or the minority who are pathological narcissists, may see others simply as objects to satisfy their desire for connection or manipulation.
The late night text – no reality
The late night phone call no reality
They are methods used by toxic people to manipulate you into submission for their purpose if reason.
This is the number 1 complaint among those I coach – the question all ask, “did they ever love me?” No!!!
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